And the main things women aren’t getting right
1. They expect men to be attracted to them based on their own female standards
What do I mean?
✨ Women think men want a ‘successful’ woman who has money – because as a woman she is attracted to that
✨ Women think men want a woman of ‘status’ – because that’s what turns her on
✨ Women think men want women with all the makeup, lip filler and cosmetic procedures she can get – because women care more about outward appearance than personality (dating app stats prove this) Judging men (and what they want) by women’s standards is the reason why women are NOT getting what they want out of dating
👉 This is because men are frustrated women don’t understand their needs Women’s BIGGEST mistake is assuming men are the exact same as women (thanks to feminism)
SOLUTION:
Step into your femininity – remember, opposites attract! Notice what men are really into (not just looks). Yes, it takes effort. Keep reading!
2. Flaunting their body for attention instead of their intellect or showcasing their personality
Not understanding that men are deeper than women give them credit for is undermining their every attempt at getting a long-term, serious relationship In order to do that, men have to take you SERIOUSLY (ie, respect you!)
BIG No-No’s:
✨ Being shallow (focusing on your outward appearance and material things only)
✨ Talking about things with conviction without having real knowledge
✨ Interrupting conversations and acting bratty
✨ Being arrogant (because you think you are successful/hot)
…are all excellent ways to ensure men don’t take you seriously!
👉 Men live by a certain code, and that is Respect
Living by your word (do what you say you’re going to do), having honor and something useful to contribute to a conversation are great ways to earn their respect
If you aren’t demonstrating that you offer more than just your looks to a man who has had or seen it all, then you aren’t standing out from the many other attractive women they have access to (This also explains why men wife-up some lesser-attractive women)
SOLUTION:
Be humble. Study things that men are interested in and join the conversation. Learn about philosophy and about personal growth. Remember, there is much more to know about the world beyond your own interests.
3. Thinking sexual intimacy will lead to commitment
Women control men’s access to sex, so it’s easy to find a man willing to give you attention in order to access it
Reality Check: If sex is the only thing you offer, depending on how difficult you are (refer to the Big No-No’s list again) determines how much a man is going to lie to you in order to get you into bed!
✨ Women are naturally more emotional, and biologically respond to sex in a way that men don’t:
✨ This is why when women have sex with a man, they feel so close to him, and develop attachment (thanks to Oxytocin). This is for pair-bonding.
✨ This is why for aeons society has discouraged sexual relations outside of committed relationships (beyond the obvious risk of pregnancy and broken families)
This is why you hear women say ‘I can do the same as men’ and rebelliously sleep around
Sleeping around becomes a silent protest and vain attempt to regain the power they felt they lost, while simultaneously trying to ‘get back’ at him
👉 Women who have fallen for men who are hot (read: have options/many women to choose from) from sleeping with them on a first date, tend to become jaded due to the hurt they felt. Their feelings were not reciprocated and commitment didn’t follow
SOLUTION:
There will always be men willing to lie to sleep with you (especially if they’re hotter than you). The key to avoid this is to develop self-awareness and Emotional Intelligence. Learn to study a person’s character, and have integrity. And not have sex on the first date.
👉 Get a commitment first.👈